My incompatibility

 Why I am  incompatible with most ones around me?

As a part of my self-inspection(a bit different from traditional "introspection ") as an ongoing process, I happened to look at the aspect of incompatibility of others, as a hurdle for inability to "maintain" their respective relationships( friends, aquaintants, relatives, whatever), with me. I am difficult to deal-with. I omit the exceptional few, who refuse to dump me😜. Those few shouldn't be discussed for sacred reasons.

I don't give in easily,( if I can help it😰)
to
1)emotional blackmail
2)irrational reasoning( a comprehensive term to include both, logic and emotions, based on human values)
3)my irrational "desires" temptations, and the sorts(a list)
4)situational compulsions, where the situation warrants only a stupid compliance of illogical social customs not based on dharma ( especially stupid-adherence to even-sound-rules, where the purpose of rules is not facing any hazard)
5) long list ( generally based on my experiences with adherence to cosmic laws, popularly known as SanatanaDharma. I thank evolved beings for this clandestine blessings they showered on me)

Why i am so adamant about not trying to compromise? I look at long term visions of my "being" rather than this temporary life span😜🙏

I trust in nature to nudge me when I fail ( obviously,  no human frame is ever infallible😭). Nature does verbalize, at times, through humans, and I attempt to evaluate the verbal forms using the available intellect, by politely requesting the mind "please listen positively, and then decide upon compliance 👍". Mind quietens, mostly!

I still am, yours,

psn(9 Dec 2024)