Objective thoughts Versus Subjective ones

 Objective thoughts Versus Subjective ones

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Now, why such_a_crazy topic?😜

My experience works, so….why not ‘share’ it? ( Let my readers decide to read, try etc or dump, trash it)

Any “grounds” to justify? YEP 👍…. Whole of USA progressed significantly, atleast until 3 decades ago, Because, half of the senators patronised Objectivist_epistemology ( shaped by Ayn Rand, for easier grasp😜🙏).

Thoughts become words, then actions, and actions become destiny🙏

Our perceptions mirror back to us as our_thoughts!

Our present day ‘tendency’ of defensiveness, owing to declining trend in mutual trust, promotes subjective orientation in our thoughts.

Example: I recall a negative incident like, “I met with an accident and got my leg broke”... It's a fact. Subjective tendency hurries to add “Oh, that was because the other guy drove his car carelessly against me!”( May be a fact as_well🙏 …but how does it help to promote positive outlook in me????  Had I avoided this second thought of ‘blame game’ , I give birth to a Possibility of “what next can I do with my broken leg??”  Outside situation was NEVER in my control🙏 . But I always had a choice of what I can/should do about it👍😜🙏

Slowly, this Subjective tendency/habit/trait in me can be dissolved and that “default cursor” of my thought_process can be shifted to Objective oriented track/path/etc, while ‘retaining’ the fault-fixing/subjective thing as a potential_only, to be invoked very CONSCIOUSLY, as per need, like in a court_room, to prove that “I am not guilty”😜😜😜

“Why did you not attend my wedding?” I can give 100 very_valid reasons to that friend 👍

“Why did I attend (despite odds)?” Only 1 reason —-i wanted to make it, come what may👍

“Why did you have to walk 11 miles to reach a school in your kid days?”  I can blame my dad's poverty Or, I can say “I wanted to get literacy, so did my dad, despite our adverse situations”.

Every year floods in a river swept away homes and lives on its banks, 1000 years ago. Most “minds” chose to think “floods are the reason 🙏👍. Can't help”. One fool stood there DEFIANTly, and said “no use blaming floods. I will stop the water😡👍”. He gave birth to a possibility to conceive a river_dam!!! Maybe his great_grand-son only could complete it🙏. But he reversed the hierarchy of negativity about an “apparently insurmountable” task 😜

Why not spend a few milliSeconds, to look at our thoughts?

Why not try to Dissuade ourselves ( secretly, privately, quietly, clandestinely, inconspicuously, hideously, whatever 😓).. …from additions like ‘because’ ‘due to’ ‘since’ etc….unless we are facing a fact_finding_investigative_authority???? 

Did I take a Vow, like “I shall live and die as a stupid, my entire this_life_time?” ….or…do I strive to enjoy facing challenges provided by the outside situation to make my life into an “Action packed block-buster thriller movie”? 😂… ( A 3 hour movie, hero/heroine had a luxurious, effortless smooth life, birth to death. Where is the ‘story’ to make it a good movie??? Isn't it a MahaBoring movie? Thriller means, hero faces all possible extreme situation till 2 hrs & 55 minutes. Last 5 minutes, everything ok, Happy ending. If it is a tragic ending, more popular movie 😜. )

Subjective suffixes, to our thought process, in a desi way of looking, only cements our possibility of becoming a Bhoot_aatma ( after death, waiting for untying our knots for 100+ lifetimes more, or more 🙏😭)

Choice was mine! I chose objectivity! No regrets thus_far!

Objectively yours,

psn(25 Dec, 2025)