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Saturday, April 28, 2012

When a quarrel is inevitable, let us(try to) have some style!

I have been participating on a spiritual forum since the beginning of this year...
The good part of that forum is that responses are many....
The inevitable part is that some heated exchanges too take place, replacing the very concept of 'response/comment' envisaged on spiritual-lines!
I have no qualms about it....  as is evident from what I wrote there about it...
Exactly....    I am reproducing what I wrote there, because most of our readers here would appreciate the 'quoted' part, since it was not mine!
regards,
psn(28th April, 2012)

That blog (with its quote within):

We see unbridled exchanges even in the 'parliament' (the prohibitive cost of it is on us, the tax payers)...
But it is simply beyond their potential to have any 'style' about it.... They are experts in strategy, and at times good at diplomacy, and at a few rare occasions, statesmanship....

Here, on such spiritual forums, even quarrels has to be on 'voluntary-basis'! So, my humble request is, why not make some efforts to make it look a bit 'stylish' .... so that, even casual readers would at least enjoy reading it, and not feel that residual bitter taste! (I am very carefully avoiding the word 'be-graceful'... there cannot be any 'grace' about a quarrel, I feel! So, 'style' is the nearest compromise!)....

What exactly I have in mind is something that looks like this........ (please do try to find a way to excuse me for what I am about put up as sort of 'bench mark' !)--
quote:

"He has all the virtues I dislike and none of the vices I admire." -- Winston Churchill

"I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure." -- Clarence Darrow

"He has never been known to use a word that might send a reader to the dictionary." -- William Faulkner (about Ernest Hemingway)

"I've had a perfectly wonderful evening. But this wasn't it." -- Groucho Marx
"I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I
approved of it." -- Mark Twain

"He has no enemies, but is intensely disliked by his friends." -- Oscar Wilde

"I am enclosing two tickets to the first night of my new play; bring a friend... If you have one." -- George Bernard Shaw to .Winston Churchill, followed by Churchill's response: "Cannot possibly attend first night, will attend second, if there is one." -- Winston Churchill

"I feel so miserable without you; it's almost like having you here." -- Stephen Bishop

"He is a self-made man and worships his creator." -- John Bright

"I've just learned about his illness. Let's hope it's nothing
trivial." -- Irvin S. Cobb

"He is not only dull himself; he is the cause of dullness in others." -- Samuel Johnson
"He is simply a shiver looking for a spine to run up." -- Paul Keating

"He had delusions of adequacy." -- Walter Kerr

"His mother should have thrown him away and kept the stork." -- Mae West

"Some cause happiness wherever they go; others, whenever they go." --- Oscar Wilde

Lady Astor once remarked to Winston Churchill at a Dinner Party, "Winston, if you were my husband, I would poison your coffee!"
Winston replied, "Madam if I were your husband I would drink it!"

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