Is this "body" of yours really yours?
Our 'R.V.' has given his views...........
We invite your views on his .........
R.V. SAYS........(QUOTE)
As everybody should know, this body of ours is not our body. It has been given to us by our parents. We have not done anything to get this body. I sometimes wonder why people spend so much time discussing about how good looking I am, how fair I am, how handsome or beautiful I am. When the body itself is not yours how can you say that I am beautiful. One can at the most say,"This body given to me is beautiful". I also wonder why people when looking for bride or a bridgegroom always pass a comment " The bride is beautiful. The Boy is handsome. If they are not then they say the girl/boy is earning a six figure salray per month. Will a beautiful wife with Six figure salary or a handsome boy with six figure salaray be guaranteed happiness or can they gurantee happiness to others. Looks and money people think will guarantee happiness. One need not do a great deal of analysis to find out that this can never be. Just look at our film stars , the most beautiful and the most monied people . They make their life and others life miserable by beautiful looks and money.Even ordinary people with good looks and a little money have managed to make themselves and others miserable. In almost all the failed marriages, the thing that stands out is the fact that the relationship has failed mainly beccause the husband or the Wife wants to change the other. Many of the marriages/relationship can be easily saved with a little bit of acceptance and respect for each other. Love and hate are the two sides of the same coin. It does not take much time to turn the so called love into hate.
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