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Wednesday, June 25, 2025

Debugging

 Debugging 


A very crucial & vital component of any “functional” aspect of life. ( Once in a grave, it is a grave_situation๐Ÿ™ not the_time for debugging)


The whole process was given a comprehensive name, when a human mind “created” an intelligence that can “function” with least possible dependence on its ‘creator’. Self-learning machines, we know! It learns through refinement, a process involving debugging too๐Ÿคฃ



Human beings were trusted with ‘intelligence’ to learn on their own. They being a ‘superior’ variety of intellect, were endowed with capabilities to interact and network, like the intelligent networking of computers today, which are evolving(6 G right now)


Accepting of a ‘bug’ in our functionality is the first step, without which, debugging is superfluous ๐Ÿ˜œ.

In the ancient days, a better intelligence was responsible to debug a lesser one. Though ‘each individual’ was well_equipped to debug himself!


In a bank, since the “stock in trade” itself is money, every piece of paper is “money” ๐Ÿคฃ. It is “realising” this….that a structure was put in place to PERFORM a Q.A. of every transaction recorded by a clerk. Officers( better intelligence) check each voucher for Quality_Assurance๐Ÿ™. Debugging is a mere consequence thereafter.


Teachers (ideally, ought to–)use tests & examinations to assure themselves of their Quality_teachings reaching a student,  only as a supplement to their “real time” Q.A. in the class, WHILE teaching a new lesson.


A good chunk of routine still remains to be debugged in our life๐Ÿ˜ฅ 

Thought_proccesses are no_exceptions to the process of QA plus De-bugging ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ


I noticed a few cultures “recognising” this needs( QA & de-bugging)

Confession in Christianity is a precious aspect ( whether a person ascribes “due” reverence to it is subjective ๐Ÿ™)

In Hinduism, a very complex software was in place. And a bug-free program was constituted to do the de-bugging. Today, it is a disfunctional routine, like somebody “ritualistically” operating a light-switch, on and off, unaware of its purpose, and therefore ignorant of absence of electricity/bulb, doing the job of illumination ( pra-jothi-ayat) 

( Example: a lamp debugs ‘sins/errors’    เคฆीเคชो เคนเคฐเคคु เคฎे เคชाเคชं เคฆीเคชเคœ्เคฏोเคคिเคฐ्เคจเคฎोเคฝเคธ्เคคुเคคे

Link : https://shlokam.org/dipajyoti/  )



When the annual de-bugging became a disfunctional ritual( during renewal of a thread/UpaKarma), the women folk devised something like a ‘silent de-bugging’ known as sumangali_prarthana, which also has turned into a mere ornamental embellishment in a disfunctional ritual of switch turned on-off, to  fused bulbs๐Ÿ˜œ


Today, 

The ENTIRE software of QA & de-bugging, is constricted+ confined to earning Profit out of some remunerative_activity….. nothing to do with ‘evolving into a quality human‘ (only stray cases occur, where a ‘freak’ pursues it akin to reinventing_the_wheel ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿคฃ…)


A bug, I remain 

Yours๐Ÿ™

psn(25 june, 2025)

Saturday, June 21, 2025

Silly doubts

 Sheer apprehension about 'how long can a blog be?'  persuaded me to shift to another page. ( Otherwise, my stupidity in asking silly questions to others might end only when I am brain-dead๐Ÿ˜ญ) earlier one was "silly questions"


1)we breathe (by default, unless we 'take a fancy for doing it CONSCIOUSLY)

Do our lungs actually say to air "Welcome, dear O² enriched air" or, does our lungs gasps for air, in dire_necessity?  

An asthmatic struggles only to inhale, why? If it were about elasticity, even exhalation needs a 'struggle' isn't it?( We squeeze out the toothpaste tube! Ah! Latest tubes are one_way elastic๐Ÿ˜œ like bribe_TAKERS. they struggle to give bribe willingly)

2)why is it that this phrase “inteligent choice” is used very rarely, now-a-days?( A negative Example ๐Ÿ˜ญ : in the banking industry, during 1995, bulk of employees & management, alike, chose the PF against Pension as a right_choice, paisa_wise๐Ÿ˜œ.  Later, wisdom dawned. Pension proved to be better. Both parties resisted against each other, about a “second time for CHOOSING”. A deal was struck for a price. Employees surrendered a FAT sum to opt for penShun๐Ÿ˜œ)

Does really the intellect NEEDS to be allowed to make an intelligent-choice, instead of our DEAR MIND?

3)why do we patronise, pamper and nourish “HURT”? ( Words CANNOT cause injury, except when it is hurled at us with authority+power, like a termination order, unjustified judgement by a judge etc…. )

Injuries are inevitable at physical level, but hurt is entirely our_creation, ain't it?๐Ÿ™

4)why don't we use the choice we have to ‘try' and transcend our basic defects?( Sorry, an irritant question this is๐Ÿ™).

A fisherman asked a saint, seeing that saint rescuing a scorpion the 3rd time, though it stung the very hand( of the saint that rescued! Pain of sting, the hand trembled, and scorpion fell into the flowing river……

The saint looked into the_innocence in the eyes of that poor fisherman and chose_to answer:”well, it is the nature of the scorpion to sting, and it is now in my nature to save. Both of us are acting according to our_own_nature” ( my take from this story: I CAN change even my embedded software ( basic nature), but I need to decide to try๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™)

5)why do we brand/label any question as “tough/out_of_syllabus/stupid/irrelevant/etc”….. just because we don't know the answers?

( I asked a B.Sc. with physics _main “can we find AC type of electricity occuring naturally?? And that person got angry๐Ÿ˜ญ…. Lightening is natural, not man_made and carries an electric charge of minimum 17000 volts๐Ÿ˜“….  Such natural AC? Wrong to ask?๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ฅ)

6) a quarrel-some doubt ๐Ÿง 

Why is it that both,    the deity himself and their devotees are a stark-contrast to each other, in their appearances, paraphernalia, rituals, display of grandeur, wealth etc? Shiva and Vishnu. ( the “why” of it is the irksome thing, not the agreement about the contrast! ๐Ÿ˜œ)

7)What kind of thoughts get rooted about us, in the minds of those with whom we interact in our life? ( If, there is a ‘belief’ in the perpetuity of some like “soul, atma, rooh, etc, that would also ‘carry’ such IMPRESSIONS about me, and accordingly, bless-or-curse me isn't it? ๐Ÿ˜œ) . Among all kinds of opinions, judgements, assessments, assumptions and presumptions etc about me, ONLY the Residues matter isn't it? Not the fleeting thoughts, of temporary relevance?

While alive, it is their thoughts about me which vibe around me๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜“, for good or bad๐Ÿ˜œ

8)what can be a “scientifically” valid reason, for being a very ETHICAL person in life?( Not quite an easy or simple answer. Why does it make sense ? how can it make sense, to “live” by values in life? 


“Dharma”, dhaarmic_life is a term popularised since times immemorial ๐Ÿ™. 

And today, look at the “nature” of the individuals who denounce Sanatan Dharma ๐Ÿ˜œ. Why are they irked by existence of those who choose to live a bit_ethically?  

Clarity can be ONLY via understanding about the scientific_utility/advantage of adherence to ethics. Advantage to exactly_WHO inside us? Body, organ called brain, fictional/subtle entity called mind/intellect, or, the subtlest fellow called “being”?)

9)Can we use discretion Judiciously, unless our sense of Discrimination has been used at its Best¿?( Judges in a court exercise discretion rarely, but we use it all our waking hours, unawares_probably๐Ÿ˜œ. Our thoughts?)

10) is it true that, the organ brain serves 2 masters? 1.requests from neuros, stomach etc, 2) mind's dictates ? 

If true, which is better? 1) overload the brain with our whimsical mind, or 2) prioritise the 'health' of our brain with 'some' sensibility in mind's commands to the poor brain?๐Ÿ˜œ

11) a junk_food item( any item, bajji, aaloo bonda, samosa, etc) dripping with oil, we eat holding it in our bare hands.

That oily palm, now needs a soap even, not just_water, to get rid of the smear of oil. 

Same item, from same palm of our hand doesn't leave even a ‘trace’ of oiliness inside our mouth ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ˜ณ. Why?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค” ( A very close person, hearing this ‘SILLY’ doubt from me, tried “saliva” ๐Ÿ˜‚ as answer. Only till I asked “, okay then, smear your Saliva liberally inside your palm and eat. Can you Guarantee that palm will be oil/grease smear_free?. )๐Ÿ™

12) why do ‘desi’ guys of ancient India respond even to a Sneeze by somebody around? 

The ‘hint’ is no_big secret ๐Ÿ˜‚

The phenomenon is a sacred thing, hence a secret๐Ÿ™

The ancients didn't miss EVEN a Sneeze, as a tool, towards the purpose of life๐Ÿ˜œ( howzzat!)

The west was a bit modest about ‘utilising’ the_sneeze; they merely murmur a ‘bless you’ to that ๐Ÿคง sneezer. Desi guys sophisticated it, being evolved, owing to the ‘hindu way of life ๐Ÿ™’ . Here in the south the response was a heavily_accentuated “Hari_hee!!!”. 

Isn't it a ‘silly doubt’ now? Now that we decided to discard the response_mechanism?

13) why do we end up, pampering our own children so much, that….the poor teacher Surely fails in teaching 'discipline’ ( which is the_most essential ingredient for learning)? The kid very_naturally looks at a teacher as a ‘very cruel ‘ person if that teacher gives excercises to do, homework, and such effective tools of learning???  

Are we not doing a same_side_goal???? ๐Ÿ˜œ

Paying fees for the teacher's salary, and the same time, putting HURDLES in the teacher's way ????

The JOKE is, even_that_teacher does the same thing with their_children๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

( Wrong koschan? )

14)why don't we get to see, women folk singing, while transplanting saplings of rice ( all kinds of garbage is viral on WhatsApp ๐Ÿ˜ณ)

I tried to tell my mind “why such silly koschans? What is in it for YOU?๐Ÿ˜ก”

My mind : hey bro…. Cool. Women singing, infuse positive Vibes, into the tender saplings. You benefit, not me, uuuuu rice-eater! And moreover, your addiction to U-rice( like U-pvc doors/pipes) is healthy.

My 'in-it' is….healthy mind in a healthy baadee/body๐Ÿคฃ”

My Quixotic mind, never-mind

๐Ÿ™

15)why don't they teach school kids about the nature of different subjects of science?

Today, I casually asked a techie, with 5 years of experience, “between physics and chemistry, which one is More abstract? (Abstract concepts need deeper focus and attention to learn, for a student ๐Ÿ™. Teacher ought to make them aware of how a subject is going to be! Maths, touches all aspects of human activity, hence it deserves dedicated learning)

Am I wrong ๐Ÿ™

๐Ÿ˜ฅ


16) (เคทोเคกเคถ) likely to irritate ‘only' those who believe in the efficacy of Sanskrit 'chant'/mantra ๐Ÿ™

Silly koschan : the priest/preceptor/Upadhyay/Purohit/vadhyar, who chants every syllable, in order to facilitate the gruhastha/yajamaan/doer of the rituals, doesn't get ‘affected’ either ways, if the chants are likely to ‘actualise’ it's purpose ( exampull: “I repeat a chant, invoking my dead father, after that guide prompts me. Of course, I specify my dad's name as well in few places. But what if his_dad too scrambles/huddles with his subtle presence as well?” ( Some way ought to be there to insulate the priest isn't it? Even in a temple, chants hardly “misfire” on the priest!๐Ÿ˜œ. ) This doubt is irrelevant, if the chants do_not adhere to the Quantum laws๐Ÿ™.

 17)Which of these 2 inside us decides our “wants and desires”, most of the times? Emotions or Logic? ๐Ÿ˜œ

( Common example: a girl is stubborn “I shall marry only Mr X , no one else” and there starts a whole movie, ending tragically or comically ๐Ÿคฃ…. )

18)a silly koschan/doubt.

I came to know, Mr X is an intellectual. I got a chance to meet him tomorrow ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ณ

My doubt : Would I need my_intellect( if any), or just my mind( an idiot, by_default๐Ÿ˜œ) would do….to re-cognise the “intellect” in Mr X??? ( I am confused due to the known “attributes” of a_mind, and an_intellect, correlated with my own experience of these 2, further komblikated/complicated by the fact that these 2 are intangible, despite being too_real/ surreal ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™)

19)why is it that most of the tablets prescribed by an MBBS is “after food”, whereas, ayurvedic items are often on empty stomach or atleast after the food gets well_digested? ( It's a highly technical matter๐Ÿ™. My wild guess: Ayurveda texts are different from all other types of medical sciences—-authors were Fully enlightened ๐Ÿ™…. Secondly, MBBS medicines are Chemicals, so mixing with chewed food is to ‘hoodwink’ the stomach trying to reject foreign objects, and somehow intrude into the blood stream๐Ÿ™….side_effects are inevitable, unlike ayurvedic medicine! Only a wise doctor among MBBS can tell us with a reliable reply. Ayurvedic physician, though needing a wisdom mandatorily for his profession, can afford to nod_safely this time ๐Ÿ˜œ)

20) Just imagine, if a powerful magician, before casting his spell, asks a couple “whose negative qualities should I CopyPaste on your spouse? You decide ๐Ÿ‘ Your life as a pair is going to be a consequence of your choice, hereafter,!” ( Original negatives will be deleted and the negatives of spouse will work. Positive will remain unchanged.

21) when do we become quite intense, CONSCIOUSLY? ๐Ÿ˜œ

( Kids below 3, are always very intense though unawares. They are not casual or serious about anything. We grown up's, are casual/careless when relaxed and we become tensed when serious in almost all situations. Intense when utterly relaxed has become an herculean task, needing complex Yoga programs and training ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ. As a kid, we were ‘naturally capable’ of relaxed_intensity๐Ÿ˜ฅ. Why did we lose this precious ability?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”)

22) materialistically, an irrelevant koschan ( hence, read and forget ๐Ÿ™)

Do we “try” to notice in our kids, if this is really true? A traditional belief: on every star/nakshatra birth anniversary, the kid confronts some kind of dis-ease/disease…. usually a mild fever. 

Once the kid is above 3 yrs, such occurances become inconspicous, incrementally with age, meaning….a sharp, alert and aware oldie can still_perceive this discomfiture within himself, if willing ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ

Why this happens? Was out_of_syllabus for my elders, when I requested an answer. Now it's my turn to tickle the intellect of those who are genuinely interested ๐Ÿ™ ( bulk of us can ignore this koschan/question ๐Ÿ˜”)
23) Human beings are more precious than plastic, isn't it? ๐Ÿ™
Then, why did we reduce the meaning of a word "virgin" while applying for humans, whereas, the true broader meaning is still in vogue when we ask for a gadgets made from virgin-plastic at a shop? Broader sense of virginity in humans is irrelevant? ๐Ÿ˜ฅ

Friday, June 20, 2025

Handling Appreciation

{ A disclaimer:

This write up is PURELY for entertainment purpose.
A part of the narratives pertains to my experience.
Anybody, EVEN inadvertently/unawares/subconsciously lending any kind of concurrence to the concepts hereunder, does so ENTIRELY at his/her risk and responsibility.๐Ÿ˜”

The purpose of this disclaimer rests on the principles of 'negative-psychology' (whatever the hell, it is)}


Appreciation scares me a bit!

My phobia. Can't help!


Wrong appreciation, i knew what to do?  Just dump it, after making the 'right kind of noises' like "so kind of you, .... thank you....  kind of you"(bla-bla)...  it doesn't pertain to me . Simple!

Negative appreciation:  A bit dangerous , but am forewarned by the processor in me called "brain". By default, it invokes an embedded program/software "why was this in a negative style?(that appreciation) ....  And I instantly dismiss it . No further action needed.  Example: Once, i was asked to 'calculate' manually, the arrears of wages-revision, arising due to 'retrospective effect agreed upon. it entailed complex calculations, involving choosing of right 'formula' for components of basic-pay etc. in short, the probability of 'human error' was within some 5000 arithmatic calculations, using only primitive pocket calculators , 40 years ago. Errors are BOUND to creep in.  But the checking official replied to my query (sir, how many errors?) with a remark "I think, I couldn't CHECK PROPERLY. I didn't find any error ๐Ÿ˜ฐ" ( i knew......  negative appreciation!  I didn't have to emote.)


Positive and genuine appreciation:  Maha dangerous (for me! If it gets into my head, it turns counterproductive)

In one of my past births, 
I was a dog. 
a good breed (casteism by God, here ๐Ÿ˜Š)  
I was picked up and trained into a police dog ( that breed could sniff well)
An emotional bond grew between my Master (cop) and me!
one day, I decided to 'say a thank-you' , like humans.  He was stupified! But, he kept it secret.
He passed on a part of the appreciation he received for an investigation, keeping the cash-component with himself, but asked me privately : "Doggie, name a gift, and it is yours!๐Ÿ‘" 
I felt elated. Ego crept in me. I said "Master, you know I can sniff damn well, better than you-humans. why not gift me a 'quality' perfume?  If imported, still better ๐Ÿ‘Œ"
He gave it. He even helped me to get it sprayed all over my hairy body. Liberal dose.....  That day, I could-not-sniff the sweat, blood or any 'evidence' left behind by the CRIMINAL.  Zero productivity. That cursed/damn perfume kept dominating my 'sensitive' smelling glands in my nose.
I was demoted, sacked.  I became a 'street-dog'....

I woke up suddenly with a sad-jerk! (What? just a dream?  or is it that God-ji used one of his dubious ways of 'educating' me, about my past birth, and the precious lessons?.  dunno!)

But, I got my lesson :  Let not a genuine appreciation get into my head! Just move on! The other person is merely displaying his potential in recognizing merit. He evolves by acknowledging me.


Doggedly yours,

psn(20th June, 2025)





Magnanimity, an illusion

 Some good friend tried to appreciate me๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ฅ


I think I ended up indirectly-discouraging him๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ™( my-bad)


Quote 


[20/06, 9:39 am] friend : It shows your magnanimity๐Ÿ™





[20/06, 9:57 am] PSN: I agree ๐Ÿ™



( Magnanimity --or-- humility.....both are very "popular" qualities ๐Ÿ˜œ.... It can 'fetch' even -votes ๐Ÿ™...


So, netas "try" to show it. Nothing wrong ๐Ÿ™ it is marketing department, for survival)



But ....my 'personal' view is(,๐Ÿ™)...

Both are only consequences of some other qualities.

Like,

Cold is due to absence of heat

Darkness is due to ABSENCE of light.

Similarly, both these are due to Presence of 'few' other qualities ๐Ÿ™



Wretchedly yours,

psn(20 june, 2025)

Sunday, June 01, 2025

Random thoughts

It is time , I thought, things that I held as 'values' within myself, for all these decades, should get scrutinized by others who possess a much sharper sense_of_discriminination than me! ( A preparedness to get get corrected).

Whereas, if by any chance, a reader decides to try it out, he should come to no harm at all๐Ÿ™ ( to ensure this, I try to confine my blabber to only my personal experience, based on element of repetitiousness.)

I keep adding, as and when my brain wave might persuade ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™



1)เคฎैं เค…เค—เคฐ เค•िเคธी เค•ो ‘เคฎाเคจเคคा‘ เคนूं เค”เคฐ เคตो เค”เคฐ เค•िเคธी เค•ो,  เคคो เคตो เค•िเคธी เค”เคฐ เค•ो เคœाเคจे เคชเคฐเค–ें เคฌिเคจा เคนी,  เคฎैं เคญी เคฎाเคจเคจे เคฒเค—เคคा เคนूँ ๐Ÿ™

If I happen to revere someone,  and he reveres someone else, then I too have reverence for that_someone too, without waiting to know or evaluating that someone else ๐Ÿ™

2)when innocence is led by awareness,  wisdom is a mere consequence 

3)any kind of refinement envisages some kind of self-imposed discipline 

4)If there is utter clarity, plus, deep acceptance, about 'what-can-be' expected from today's people(even Hindus), such person is free-from shackles of all kinds ๐Ÿ˜€

4)Transparency promotes trust.... trust when invoked, nurtures reverence…..

5)Unleashing the potential of a "mind" ....

is not a tiring excercise,  if we bothered to maintain the health of our mind๐Ÿ˜œ


I don't know,  if it qualifies as a concept?  Between the body and a mind, the distinction is, body ages despite maintenance,  whereas a mind, if maintained-well, can defy aging ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ˜œ

6)Loneliness or isolation is inversely proportional to the inclusivess capability we grow into!

7)if we are keen to know about our genuineness in our quality called involvement,  the litmus test is, our innovation_quality is maintained_actively_in_readiness.  But without inclusiveness, involvement cannot survive ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™

8)of you ‘find’ that the person standing before you is able to accept truth(about anything) EFFORTLESSLY….then, know that…..you are staring at the_Highest_form of COURAGE, functioning ๐Ÿ˜œ. ( I strongly suggest, please try to mince-meat/tear-apart/mercilessly-criticise this observation of mine๐Ÿ™. Blind acceptance might deprive you it's benefits if any, PLUS it might deny me a chance to apologise for making a stupid statement. Win-win idea๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™)


9)if, we are keen to have just one single idea to hold on to our life, which obviates the need to adhere to numerous 'good advices' my experience is "just keep refining myself in every thought, word and deed" through my life.  The best finds me, instead of me chasing the best๐Ÿ˜œ ( desi Guru's keep looking for only DESERVING candidates. Historical truth)

10) getting along peacefully with someone locked alongside us, inextricably, is undoubtedly a challenging task.
In my attempt to render myself “harmless” to the fellow alongside me, I found myself ending up being also_USELESS to that person ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿคฃ. ( Obviously, when a distance is affordable, I do better ๐Ÿ™ I don't EXIST, in their experience ๐Ÿ‘)
11)Knowledge and wisdom CAN precede or succeed innocence, but innocence cannot be OBVIATED at all, for ultimate liberation/Mukti/moksha/whatever ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™
12) Parenting was different until a century ago, since thousands of years.
The ‘values' (taught)were enough, to resist hacking ๐Ÿคฃ. Basic OS was those Values ๐Ÿ™ 
Today, fire-walls are not working, and latest OS is Never BUG-FREE ๐Ÿ˜ญ. VERIFY thoroughly, this statement and then agree! Discarding it is an easier option, just ‘delete ๐Ÿ‘’
12-A) Value-BASED education ( till 200 years ago in Bharat ( not Literacy ๐Ÿ˜œ)
Those-values, which are COMPATIBLE with human physiology ๐Ÿ™. ( Details, I omit deliberately)
13) Right kind of choices are possible only when the intellect is free from the dominating mind(a mere sum total of experiences, and its influences)...when choosing is the urgent need of the situation ๐Ÿ™
14) Reckless, random, incoherent and unbridled thought_processes when awake, are indicative of our tendency to mimic our dream_state where, brain doesn't process and intellect remains unavailable ๐Ÿ˜œ ( not a ‘good' sign!)
15) Parenting is utmost crucial upto 5th year of a child, simply because, the Very Nature of this formative-years is going to work as an EMBEDDED software for the lifetime of that kid, and hence vital. ( The paradox is “if we don't know the difference it makes, there won't be any difference for that kid” ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ)
16) Bharat is(was) Shraddha/เคถ्เคฐเคฆ्เคงा culture, compared to ‘freedom’ culture we Aped today ๐Ÿ™. 
Reverence is the nearest available word, though grossly inadequate to capture its true sense.
When shraddha is at its best, intellect is at its peak, riding on awareness & alertness, both at its best!
( Imagine walking around, inside a large house  networked with a maze of criss-crossed wires, uninsulated, carrying a high charge of 11000 volts of electricity ๐Ÿคฃ one careless movement, is fatal ๐Ÿ˜ฅ. Now, remove that ‘fear’ and then visualise the intensity of care, caution, alertness and awareness of walking around a reverential person, or a consecrated place like a temple or home. This is just a symbolic example to help visualization of how_receptive WE should be, to benefit from such reverential people, place or things๐Ÿ™)
For a super_perfect utilitarian advise, a verse in Gita, is a trillion times better than what I tried to ‘suggest’ here using my primitive life experience ๐Ÿ˜“( เคถ्เคฐเคฆ्เคงाเคตाเคจ เคฒเคญเคคे เคœ्เคžाเคจเคฎ…..)
17) honesty unto oneself is a Nasty business, but a few fools undertake it, and innocently cause envy into others, by displaying a pleasant aura due to it!( It seems somebody tried to “educate” a sculptor re-doing a tiny statute to be placed at a height of 30 metres on a tower of some church or temple, saying “see…nobody is going to notice that tiny_flaw on the previous one there, from such a height. Why waste efforts re-doing it?”
That sculptor: “but I know, there is a flaw there๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜ž”)
18)while knowledge of law cannot be expected from common man, Jurisprudence SHOULD NOT BE avoided by common man, especially since Jurisprudence doesn't require literacy ๐Ÿ˜œ( proof: in all departmental-Enquiries, no enacted law is forced upon. No LLB is needed to be an enquiry official, presenting official or a defense_representative๐Ÿคฃ. ideally, therefore, any dept-enquiry has better scope to do-justice than a Supreme court even. Courts only_administer Law. Any “justice” is purely incidental ๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™)
19) That inclusiveness, envisaged in the cherished greatness of sanatana Dharma, through its words “vasudaiva Kutumbakam”( universe is my family), got chopped off, because of today's social norms “don't interfere in my life” ๐Ÿ˜œ…. I will vote for a Jihadi, or even yield to his love jihad, my freedom, you_get_lost!
I became an indifferent fool, fearing that interference into my next kin, friend, fellow citizens ๐Ÿ™. ( No cure, so endure๐Ÿ˜œ๐Ÿ™)
20)for Any debate to be a “healthy” one indispensable requirement is, both sides need to be equipped with a matching level of inputs relevant to the subject of debate.
(Evidence: Aadi Shankara conceded when asked “what do you know about a married life?” and requested a week's time to experience the relevant data, came back to win the debate with wife of first pontiff of shringeri mutt)
21)the flip_side of desi spirituality is, as long as a person keeps refining oneself spiritually ( only to one's own possible _best, no benchmarks), there are evolved beings hovering around, to support mightily, unbelievably, and certainly! 
Traditional evidence about a “Guru” seeking a disciple, is the proof ๐Ÿ™. ( My personal experience, though of great value for me, about this, need not be taken cognizance of๐Ÿ™). Tough thing is, to ‘keep refining oneself’ on a daily basis๐Ÿ˜œ( flop side).
22)I don't know if this can find an appeal, just_enough to examine honestly๐Ÿ™

The criteria for becoming a full_fledged Brahmin is only if there is an Experience of 1st of the 4 Mahavakyas "pragyanam Brahma" ( preliminary stage of a noteworthy evolvement for a human)

Mere Name tag as a "Brahmin" serves only an extraneous purpose, not related to its purpose ๐Ÿ™
23)Grown up Children'demanding' from parents their "freedom"(today)
sadden stupid parents๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ
A responsible jailer gets MORE freedom than the criminal leaving that 'jail'! 
A jailer commits sucide(prisoner is not responsible) WHEREAS, a prisoner does it? Jailer gets questioned FIRST
24)Trust has to grow on its own. Forcing others/ourselves, onto or from, is futile. Inclusiveness at its deepest level is the manure ๐Ÿ˜œ. When ‘trust’ is mention-worthy, the society or nation scales prosperity as a byproduct of spirituality ๐Ÿ™
25)Dress related obscenity, embarassment, revulsion, etc is only due to the mind-set, whereas, traditionally, an apparel was ‘meant’ to serve, not the minds of an onlooker, but to suit the situation, occasion or event. ( Until 200 years ago, Hindus of Bharat Preferred only unstitched clothing, and used their ingenuity to drape it skillfully ๐Ÿคฃ)
An englishwoman did quiz Ramana Maharshi about his loincloth-only. He addressed her mind's genuine-quest(ion) and said “you have no-probs, leaving only-your-face uncovered isn't it? Well, for me it's my entire body! But I wear a full dhoti when I walk through a village. Here on a rock, at this desolate mountain top, I need just a loincloth๐Ÿ™”
26)femininety, at its subtlest sense is not about a female gender, but it is about the closest_possible proximity to the Shiva ness/shivatatwa, in a spiritual sense! If, perception is affordable, a look at the countenance of spiritually evolved people will reveal their femininety, grace etc ๐Ÿ™ ( Females are naturally gifted with an overdose of femininety_also, which , they today demolish with concerted efforts, to compete with the logic in their male_counterparts. Obviously, the logic fails them often, when they need it most๐Ÿ˜ญ
27)the efforts needed,
to build a “character” 
is
inversely proportional to the support received from our surroundings ๐Ÿ˜œ
( try to demolish this, and do_tell_me, if you succeeded ๐Ÿ™)
28)"I cannot choose the best. The best chooses me" wrote Gurudev in “stray birds”. For this, I need to strive for ‘self-refinement’(เค†เคค्เคฎ-เคชเคฐिเคท्เค•ाเคฐ ) in every activity of thought, word and deed incessantly ๐Ÿ™. ( It seems to work for me๐Ÿ˜œ)
29) for communism to work well, the politburo needs to be brainy, patriotic incorruptible etc.
Ancient kerala, rishis were politburo. King was today's CM. It worked for thousands of years. Today's Kerala, if one member of politburo is accidentally honest, they make him a CM( king)๐Ÿ˜‚. He obeys and takes all the blame as well๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘
30) even ‘truth’ has evolved in its displayed forms ๐Ÿ˜œ
Not just ‘bitter’ now! It even irritates๐Ÿฅต
Look at the spate of ‘advises’ heaped daily on my WhatsApp. The truth is that the ‘sender’ himself never verified or practices it๐Ÿ˜ฅ
31)I got ‘addicted’ to Kerala towel, for drying myself after bath. It's a plain cotton cloth but its loosely spun yarn absorbs water easily, and the loose porous Weave dislodges my dead skin of yesterday when I rinse it. Non-addicts are blessed with “turkish” towel etc. They love to re-live through their dead skin that gets embedded deep into the hidden weave beneath ๐Ÿ˜œ
32)Sadism is contagious as I see. Just that clever ones among us nurture only its benign-form, to feign empathy ๐Ÿ˜‚
30) even ‘truth’ has evolved in its displayed forms ๐Ÿ˜œ
Not just ‘bitter’ now! It even irritates๐Ÿฅต
Look at the spate of ‘advises’ heaped daily on my WhatsApp. The truth is that the ‘sender’ himself never verified or practices it๐Ÿ˜ฅ
31)I got ‘addicted’ to Kerala towel, for drying myself after bath.  It's a plain cotton cloth but its loosely spun yarn absorbs water easily, and the loose porous Weave dislodges my dead skin of yesterday when I rinse it.  Non-addicts are blessed with “turkish” towel etc. They love to re-live through their dead skin that gets embedded deep into the hidden weave beneath ๐Ÿ˜œ
32)Sadism is contagious as I see. Just that clever ones among us nurture only its benign-form, to feign empathy ๐Ÿ˜‚
33)Each of the 'sense' organs in a human,

has a potential to evolve beyond the 'basic' functions that comes as a factory-fitting. ( Easiest convincing one is the pair of eyes ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ)
34) the secret of a successful domestic harmony in today's scenario is in the ability to compensate for the deficiency in self_discipline in our spouse ๐Ÿ˜œ

35) Seeing God in a temple!
I CopyPaste the Wisdom of a soorDas( a polite way of addressing a blind person, reverentially ๐Ÿ™)
He said,( in response to a mockery  “ you are born_blind, and yet, claim a darshan of deity? Eh? ๐Ÿ˜›”) ….”well, agreed that I am blind, but Godji isn't blind, and isn't it enough if He sees me?”
My problem arose now! ๐Ÿ˜“. Despite sightful eyes, do I have the perception to “see” that subtle energy CONSECRATED in that idol?. That soorDas is better_abled, not differently abled , when it comes to sitting eyes CLOSED for a MeditaShun ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ˜œ. He can afford with eyelids wide open ๐Ÿ˜ญ
36) when it is about defining the type of relationship we hold with others, I was wondering how to make it brief, as a ready reference for my personal use๐Ÿ™
Broadly, we have two major types: commercial and non-commercial. 
Then, why not call it as 2-way and 1-way traffic?๐Ÿ˜œ. The moment we seek some/any kind of gratitude, acknowledgement, reciprocation, emotional or pecuniary, my relationship is a 2-way. Only when I do something and never bother to turn back, looking for how it went with the other, it is 1-way traffic ๐Ÿ˜‚. A sophisticated name is “unconditional love” ๐Ÿ˜ฅ. “One-way traffic” is much easier on my mind๐Ÿ™
37) phoren(foreign) visitors state at the incredibly low rate of collision, when they look at a six-way busy crossing junction in the heart of a metro like Mumbai! Signals not working, and no traffic police. Vehicles of all types criss-cross like disturbed large beehive, where bees are flying criss-cross without colliding ๐Ÿ˜œ ( who am I to tell them, “Sir, ๐Ÿ™…. but it's happening right inside you too! Only if your ‘mind' can permit you to observe ๐Ÿ˜“. There is a junction in your throat. Food is swallowed, and air is breathing across at the same time, but without colliding ๐Ÿ˜‚ . Only if your mind insists on ‘talking while eating’ chewed food might be forced towards lungs a bit, and the ‘lungs’ scream with what we call it as cough! On the other hand, if mind_is_Kind, awareness adds to smooth flow of traffic at throat. Breathing+swallowing๐Ÿ™".      ๐Ÿ˜‚)
38)artificiality of emotions, I could understand like never_elsewhere, when I came across an Urdu couplet( ‘sher’, they call it)
Hazaar phool kam hai, ek dulhan ko sajaane ke liye!
Ek phool kaafi hai, ek kabr ko sajaane ke liye!


Hazaar khushiyan kam hai ek zindagi banaane ke liye ๐Ÿ˜“
Ek gam kaafi hai ek zindagi mitaane ke liye ๐Ÿ™

( Power of ‘genuine’ emotions Versus “build_up” of artificial ones๐Ÿ˜œ)

39)The mystery of our "life" ( the way we are able to experience 'being alive's)....
is merely due to its subtlety ( our sensory levels of perception, apart from being limited, they are also focused outwards).


Mind, being judgemental by its own nature is unable to perceive the source of it's own fuel , the life energy ๐Ÿ™‚

The element of wonder, and it's retention beyond the 'default' functioning during our kid age, tends to recede, as our mind gets busy! That ability to 'wonder' is the best tool to perceive the subtlety of life.


( Meanwhile, certain 'beliefs' related to 'spirituality' is resorted to keep us as 'seekers' for demystifying the 'self'. Self, we can clearly see is not 'my body' or 'my mind'.

Each person is left to decide what, how, why & when to "seek".

Rest is history ๐Ÿ˜‚

40)When a mind turns reactionary by default, instead of a capacity to ‘respond’ CONSCIOUSLY to a situation, it resembles a bent foot ruler, used to draw a straight line ๐Ÿ˜‚ . Wherever it is used, the drawn line will be always bent, not straight ๐Ÿ™


41) Fundamental difference between our desi education system and the western system we are thrusted_upon with….. Ours WAS based on spirituality ( which includes handling of material life dexterously), Whereas the present system suffers the confinement, limitations and restrictions of educating about handling of only_the_material aspect of life. ( Try to “afford” examination of the consequences of both, to be able to judge this guess work of mine, judiciously ๐Ÿ™ ๐Ÿ˜œ)

42) Wisdom is going to come only at the last, but it need not take a whole life-time to get an entry_ticket. ๐Ÿคฃ. Wisdom about wisdom is encapsulated in the adage “a wise head on young shoulders”( I tell myself ๐Ÿ™ “Just make a choice about it, enjoy life with wisdom or suffer the SAME life without it๐Ÿ˜“”)
43)Just deal with our love for comfort zone, everything else will be life positive. Just keep reminding myself “nothing grows in my comfort zone”( even a baby decides to leave its comfort zone of the womb, to face the labour pain, for ‘growth’ ๐Ÿ˜œ. Embedded software ๐Ÿ™)

44) When awareness peaks, subtler levels of perception become possible, transcending the gross levels. Gross levels of perception is an embedded software designed by nature to ensure preservation and propagation of a species. Humans have a CHOICE to stagnate, deteriorate or to improve upon these levels of perception ๐Ÿ™


45)The paradoxical situation about stupidity is, it needs wisdom to get reformed or even to think of reformation!!!๐Ÿ˜ญ

46) I would always like to acquire a boon/capability to realise my own stupidities at the earliest possible ( not much rush, crowd or long queues of seekers for this!๐Ÿ˜œ). After that, I guess, I don't need to stand in the long queue for seeking common sense, wisdom etc ๐Ÿ™ 

47)very ironically, in few situations……we end up being Honest with those whom we dislike and being dishonest with those whom we like! 
Example: we tell him on_his_face, “get lost, I don't like/agree with what you say”, to a disliked person. Whereas, we feign a mild liking/agreement to a person we like, to something displeasing that he says๐Ÿ˜œ. Why can't we afford honesty? Why fear losing the friendship? Is it worth, if dishonesty is a MUST?