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Thursday, November 21, 2013

Experience is what it does to us, when we do with what happens to us

Experience is not what happens to a man; it is what a man does with what happens to him.”... said " Aldous Huxley" !!!

I was quite impressed by this 'quote'...
so I tried a...


a crude translation ...

"मानव के साथ जो होता है 
वह अनुभव नहीं कहलाता 
बल्कि जो हुआ उस से क्या करता है "


why not in that 'tough' malayalam too!


മനുഷ്യൻ നേരിടുന്ന സംഭവങ്ങൾ അല്ല അനുഭവം 
 അവൻ ആ സംഭവങ്ങൾ കൊണ്ട് എന്തു  ചെയ്യുന്നു എന്നുള്ളതാണ് !

Very often, we find that a long forgotten 'happening' resurfaces within us as a 'deep experience' only when we 're-live' that event even long after it had really happened! (For instance, we 'understand' why our parents 'scolded us' so severely, only long after they have 'gone'... while we had barely managed with that 'surge-of-hate' that had overpowered us at that event itself, when it was 'live'!)...

This experience, if it is deep enough, tells us how to deal with an event in future...

Only a well-balanced-mind can manage to squeeze the 'most' out of even trifling incidents!

Those who happen to 'settle' down (really) into deep meditative states,
(just sitting quiet, doing nothing, eyes closed......)
or,
even those ... just watching one's own breath ...
among them... those who improve the very quality of watching their breath...
these two....
know too well... no incident is a trifle... every moment of life enriches us in many ways!

(To such people, who are prepared to look at 'happenings' thus.... shall we say, “welcome to spirituality” ?... For a very long time, I found myself trying-hard... to play that dual role... of a host saying 'welcome' ... as also that 'reluctant-guest', struggling to tell myself, “May I come in Sir?”... :)) }...

Experi-mentally yours,

psn (21st November, 2013)   

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