Compatibility issues between spouses

 Compatibility issues between spouses

A reader is going to ask me “who the hell are you, to assume competence to talk about this subject?”

I am not competent enough.

But I had a chance to look at my parents right from my kid age 😥. And, I am not divorced as yet, since 4 decades😜

Even notionally/emotionally–Estranged couples shoot this question to their parents who were stubborn about matching of horoscopes “what happened now?😡” (Astroger had certified that horoscopes match excellently👍🙏…. Still the couple is not happy with each other, especially after the magic of physiological attractions faded in a very brief period 😥)

Some people try “after sales service” from the astrologer. (Meanwhile, in all probability, he himself is facing the same issue between him & his own wife😜). Joke: astrologer blinks, when asked: which fool matched the horoscope of Ram & Sita?” Well, they faced every situation together, not in mutual conflict😜.  It is about mutual compatibility, not a silk_smooth life in comfort zone 🙏

Spirituality is not meant for solving compatibility issues between spouses 🙏. Yet, the insight might help offering clues which the later generations of astrologers ignored to learn🙏

My guess work(to the extent I discovered/learnt):

1)well matched horoscope failing & omitted cases of looking at horoscopes, being–successful 🤣 ( now…. interesting? 😜)

Well, horoscopes and the astrologer, if both are exceptionally good (this itself is rare🙏😭), they match only one out of 3 essential ingredients requiring a match.

Our minds are foremost to become compatible (even if one spouse hates a running fan while sleeping and the other needs fan_air compulsorily, a matching ‘mind’ might adjust 🙏. Physiology has mutual problems 😜)

Mind, at the today's legally permissible age of marriage, becomes an unbreakable block made- out of the three ingredients in uncertain quantities each & aggregately.

a)Own karma of past( praarabhda karma, carved out of the godown of Sanchita karma) the wandering spirit, mind, soul, whatever is seeking a vehicle (body) for its unfulfilled desires 🙏. Today's astrologer is “stuck” at finding a match only for this aspect of the mind/karma, using the horoscope, and the science behind it 🙏. Today's astrologer forgot ‘how to match's or atleast request his customer to ‘also match, b) & c)”

b) inherited karma…. Parents ( if there is, a lineage also🙏…. Genetically, memories influencing a mind, is proven scientifically —a video clip : Ghost in your genes— has influence) contribute to the mind, right from womb, until they are together.

c) Acquired karma 😜…. Now-a-days, world_wide_web or WWW, that too, AI enabled, apart from homes, neighbourhood and schools/college/colleagues/friends & enemies/well+ill wishers, contributes to the tendencies of a mind 😜

The uncertain mixture of this mind is trying to find compatibility with another gender of uncertain mixture of that_mind🤣

A tiny advantage in the ancient days was = child marriages , to a large extent managed compatibility issues of b) & c) . I must drop a mention that a family priest used to be highly qualified in astrology until 200 years ago in Bharat. He audits therefore, a), b) & c) , sincerely, honestly and thoroughly 🙏. Today's priests don't know the scientific effect of even the chants they use, and tutor their ‘victims’ to repeat.

The topic is such that I should leave a reader at this🙏. ( He can add anything on his/her own, and choose to respond or not with their feedback.

Compatibly yours,

psn(10 Feb , 2026)