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Tuesday, March 24, 2026

Love and Trust

 Love & Trust.


If my previous blog, ( https://selfseekers.blogspot.com/2026/03/litmus-test-of-love.html ) does not appeal, please do not bother to waste your time reading this πŸ™



I look at Love & Trust as 2 sides of the same coin 😜



Obviously, the same litmus test ought to work for trust as well πŸ‘ ( otherwise, my idea falls apart πŸ˜“. I should accept my flaw).

True trust never seeks a satiation”



( When I started ‘looking' like an oldie, the social norms applicable to an oldie, from youngsters, started getting operational 😜. Not that, there was a likelyhood of any Damn experience out of it😜. Just a show bijness, to go_through a stupid ritual. Sans symbolism, every action connected with desi tradition is reduced to a ‘ritual’ only. No experience out of it πŸ™)


Anyway, youngsters started seeking ‘blessings', while formally inviting me to their wedding.

I try to “add” some value ( to my_best onlyπŸ™).

I tell them “see, any wedded life is bound to have ‘slight’ quarrels once in a while. But if it gets a bit serious and you get_a_doubt like ‘does he/she love me like before’, you might feel confused. Instead you ask YOURSELF ‘ is he/she still trustworthy?’ . If the answer within is a big ‘Yes’, the …. be rest assured your quarrel is a passing phase. Love is difficult to measure, but trust is damn easy… same coin, 2 sides”

No youngster disagreed till dateπŸ˜“



Trustingly yours,

psn(24 March, 2026)



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