By default

 By default 

All our ‘habits’ are by-default functions in us🙂…. (If a response is like “ Nah!😡,”... then, even-denial is a ‘default’ item in us)

Joke : getting rid of unwanted habit 

H A B I T (remove “h’, trying bit_by_bit)

A  BIT ( remains.  remove ‘a’ now)

BiIT ( remains.  Try again. ‘b’ this time)

IT …., (it remains 🙏🤣…. Ready to give up)

Please see, 

Our sense of insecurity pursuades a good number of “default” responses in us. They become a second nature. Habit, concentrated is ‘default' or ‘second nature'.... 

A few of us find it difficult to get_out_of it🙏

We find it effort full to accept or speak truth ( even when we “want to” 🙏 ) because,  second nature doesn't require conscious effort. Doing opposite of ‘habit, default response or second nature’ needs conscious-effort EACH time🙏😭

At least among our trustworthy people,  is it okay to take efforts CONSCIOUSLY, and resist things like ‘denial, telling lies, etc’???

( A personal secret/weakness of mine 🙏…. My spouse complains , “not safe to tell you any secrets! By default, you blabber the truth 😡” …. I accept this allegation, but it suits my spiritual bijness, though it caused material loss)

A Major defective of default-habit in me is…..  intense-involvement in doing even a routine_mundane_nonsense!🙏😭 ( Denial,  refusal, terminological_inexactitude/lying, etc need my conscious effort! Too late to reverse my commercially unviable habits).

Shifting into opposite of any habit is a choice, but not quite easy, though simpal😜

Consciously yours,

psn(25 May 2025)