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Sunday, February 25, 2024

Rented versus Own house

 Rented versus own house


The experience of “dwelling” at these 2 places gives us an opportunity to experience and live through certain core concepts which are very basic to life.


My entire 3 decades since birth was at rented houses. Then, I managed to buy a piece of land, built a house, and lived in it thereafter.


“Bhikari ko sau bheek” an adage i heard de ades ago.

Beggar gets a taste of hundred dishes…… is the crude translation. The message is, “though a beggar needs to beg…he tastes food from different kitchen daily😜🤣”  ( whereas, non_beggars are “stuck” to eating the same taste from same kitchen for life…..😜…. Is not a beggar better off, in that sense?)


Rented dwellers keep changing houses( or at least….they have that “choice”)... I lived in 3 places at all the 3 cities, I lived on rented accommodation.  It had its own drawbacks, like hitting a nail on the wall needs prior permission 🤣…. The moment I moved into my own house, the first thing I announced to my sister was “go ahead….drive a nail anywhere you like..👍  now, it's our place!” ( yeah! I didn't have to drive a fresh nail anywhere, after she VACATED the rented/borrowed body on this planet 🙏…



I asked myself ( and then “tested” my question, asking my wife) “ why do I need to remain stuck in my own house, just because I own it? “

I tried simple replies to myself “ if a close person, a relative or friend can agree, we can have a “change” exchanging the dwelling into each others houses for a week, fortnight….every year”... the idea 💡….brought a smile too 😜…. Damn good yaar!... just a few clothes is all that is needed, unlike the miserable rented fellow who moves “lock_stock_and_barrel”(whatever that meant 🙄😳){https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lock,_stock,_and_barrel#:~:text=%22Lock%2C%20stock%2C%20and%20barrel,the%20stock%2C%20and%20the%20barrel. }

Tremendous advantage…. 

Awesome change …. Trust renewed…. Win_win situation.



Such pleasant thoughts drives me invariably into spiritual arena.

Rented versus own body for my spirit/atma/rooh/soul/whatever….

After death, I quit this body.  Then, I dont know what happens to me_or_myBody… my buddies take care of disposing my carcass ( all other life forms dispose their-own bodies very decently 😜… a herd of elephants is never known to cause any pollution in a forest after its death. Whereas, a domesticated elephant costs “hell” to gets its body disposed!


Can two peepals/people exchange rented bodies while alive? ( yes & no….depending upon individuals…) a living person can rent a dead corpse temporarily, as in the story of adishankara, during a debate with the wife of first pontiff of Sringeri mutt… he migrated into a dead king's body, for a week, came back into his own body and continued the debate, to win 🙏👍


Partial_occupation, without any serious encroachment……is also a strong possibility. Emotion is the driving drill_bit….and the process is empathy/सह__अनुभूति …. technical name is भाव स्पन्दन ( sympathetic vibration,  or…simple harmonic vibration, that i learnt in इschool/madarsa, as physics lessons, using tuning forks)  this hindi word सहानुभूति is often mistakenly_used for “sympathy” while it is meant for co_experience/empathy…. Stepping_into_shoes of the_other…

( a few spiritual programs, afforded me a glimpse at “how it feels, to permeate into someone else's emotional body…😳… “ it happens by itself….a short lived thing like a mushroom popping up during lightening, rain etc, and fading out in few hours🙏



Anyway,  the “concept” of renting an accommodation, for my body or the_body for my “being”....helped me to loosen myself a little,  within me… ( Nagpur_oranges when ripe, wobble inside its firm round and shiny skin, quite independently 😜… Likewise, I feel a little loose within my rented body🤣



Accomodatively yours, 


psn (25 feb 2024)





Tuesday, February 20, 2024

Our perceptions

 Our perceptions 



#SillyKoschan

are you having the ability to notice the latent “qualities” in any person, who is largely available within your proximity?( simplified form: if, N.D.Modi had continued to be a chaiwala/teaServer near you for 10 yrs, would have “listed” out several qualities in him? ( so_called andhBhakht, can list good, whereas haters can list bad qualities, though neither of them ever met him in person 😜). My colleages"discovered"me afresh after I turned ex-colleague😜🙏



https://www.kooapp.com/koo/SpiritualSeeker/914b788a-8f66-47d3-9cd4-ad9b0f18faf7



( my teacher in spiritual program had asked us “ suppose the fellow seated next to you in an overcrowded bus/train……is a fully enlightened person, how would you know? He may even  quarrel with you for space, jostling in crowd “. It flattened me, that question.  I borrowed the concept of the retired chief cop of the story/novel/movie “day of the jackal” …. He didn't know which minister was a mole, and therefore he bugged everybody's phone 😜… i decided to do a naman to everybody i “see” around….it doesn't cost a dime 😅… but any benefit, is directly proportional to my intensity within. I can always quarrel too 👍)


But, there ought to be a way to know……isn't it? 

Like all subtle things, concepts etc….the tool is perception…. Deepen it as best as possible,  and keep_on deepening it ever always… ( over the decades…..i can sight/spot many aspects latent in peepals/around, just by looking at them. I even tried asking a fellow passenger, a rustic “ ayya/si, are you into milk bijness?” He was astounded” how do you know.?”,... I responded “the thumb of yours…hardened skin, rubbing on udders for years….skin_modification… “ and he felt convinced. But when I guess the “dreams” of somebody, I can't “explain” how I deduced.. )



Learning things from hearsay only……

is akin to scoring high marks in exam after mugging books and pasting it on answerPaper…. It has nothing to do with perception.  Worse, we are a tool in the hands of toolkit experts, who plant hate in me about a “Modi”... my own buddhi is absent. I am a buddhoo… if not a buddha, at least a buddhi, from budhoo? … may we wake up into a deeper perception than last night?



Latently yours,


psn, (20 February 2024)




Education versus Literacy

 https://www.kooapp.com/koo/SpiritualSeeker/30b68a97-0ec4-4dfc-8f5b-4117848b7625




#Education  Versus  #Literacy 


Basics, fundamentals,  etc about

what is "intended to be taught"  should be 'comprehensive' at early stages, and should be 'elaborate' at later stages....  ( for both....education & literacy)


Education is a must, for every human, whereas, literacy is by choice. ( ideally, a good education enables a student about "in which area/subject should I get literacy? "


Education in how to ....1 ) learn,2)stabilize emotions,3)deepenPerception,4)use discrimination 🙏




( example: matriculation subjects are COMPREHENSIVE, not elaborate....hence common for all... 

Within engineering,  1st semester is common for all, not elaborate... 

Later, .....higher level of literacy is elaborated selectively)



What about educating the basics of "life itself"????


Starts with parenting.....mom teaches in her womb as her classroom... dad joins when a baby gets acclimatized to its  birth house,  into a home.

School teacher can only "supplement" it further, if parents had_already given basic_inputs, not otherwise 🙏) ..... 


today, education itself is out-of-syllabus, basics-of-life is unknown to parents in a structured syllabi-format, schools ignore it 😜...


Then kids?

Every kid is more alert than usual, when teacher marks "important" portions/chapters/lessons for exam... kids grasp the whole_concept upside down. Marks decides, not learning 😜🙏



Illiterately yours,

psn 20 feb 2024





Thursday, February 08, 2024

My blogs

 My blogs



I kooed 

https://www.kooapp.com/koo/SpiritualSeeker/1052c603-c5fe-4c61-841c-2871deacbed0



 

#Response_ability


#silly_koschan 🙏

“no response” says the doctor, when he checks a patient in deep coma. But, when we are okay, and interact with our life situations all our waking hours, how often do we respond, instead of reacting ??? ( now, do you feel a reaction to this silly koschan, or does a response surge ?)


Then I re_viewed myself 


My weakness  ( one of the numerous weaknesses, actually 😜)



I look for how a person decides to interact with me?

Response, or a reaction 😜


Seldom, it fails me 🙏

( blogs, comments, etc ....for instance.....

I know exactly.....how the mind is going to look at my "wordings"....


Experts in conducting written/oral tests....for recruitment etc... face the challenge of devising fail_safe options in objective type questions....



Whereas, clever ones include responsive type questions. ( one simple question i recollect from my SSB interview 1967_68 (42nd batch of NDA.....

Placard displayed for 5 seconds. Within 30 seconds write a sentence "using" the word "knife" on placard.... no time for conjuring dubiously your cleverness.

Few responses...

Knife is used in kitchen ( good for being a cook, not nda)

Knife is often a murder weapon ( negative fellow)

Knife is a good tool for self_defence ( ah! Good candidate)



And so on




My blogs revolve around spiritual aspect of.....how our mind hinders our spiritual evolvement... ( spirit is the life inside a body.... evolved spirit means quality life ,,,,thats all 🙃)... 

No reply, means....a response by the spirit, is blocked by the apprehensive karmic mind 😜... response means, " yep! I am prepared to look, if....what you say is true for_me 👍"



Readily yours

PSN(8 feb2024)

Monday, February 05, 2024

Washing clothes

 

New_vaa?

Her colleagues ask at times...

She says... " no...no... 10 yrs old.... I took it out after a long time ....thats all! 😰"


Innocent looking piece of conversation... it ended abruptly, leaving no residue.

I was asked thus.
I too gave a similar reply. And it got-ended too.....similarly...

I kept wondering...
then, wandering .....

It must be the "lustre" of a clothing....that persuades an observer to ask "new___aaa?""

Otherwise, a few people just wash well, remove the dirt+dust...and that's it... the "newness" gets lost in a few washes.

I learnt how to restore that Lustre a "little" bit ....😔
The-mind, being en_grooved into spiritual bijness already (😜), doesn't allow me to rest at that...
It probes further....
Ancient saints & sanyasis used to wash their own clothes.....why? Disciples would cheerfully help!

Then it dawned...
We don't shed skin like a snake 🙄
Our dead skin is like "dust".... only when it gets 'wedged between the tresses of our hair...some other life form evolves into it using the scalp skin as an organic manure ....

Body skin, "can" get wedged between the weave of the clothing, and more so when salty sweat promotes "cling wrap" 🤣🤣🤣

Kaarmic body...... say the wise.
Obviously, skin is very much a part of that body, and ought to carry karmic residue in the pieces of microdust particles, getting wedged....
A baby implores..." mom is unavailable ( dead).... can I use her garment, its "comforting mom-fragrance"? to invoke my sleep....? ( a wise and sharp observer "listens" to this non-articulated gesture of the baby, digs out a used_garment of that departed mom.....the thing works👍🙏😜
( so....it  "suggests"....some karmic residue lingers....good or bad...whatever!)

Hand washing of clothes, is out_of_fashion.....
Intensive sales of fuzzy-logic in machines have defeated that inquisitive mind's  urge to relook, and gives way for comfort zones...

Lustre gives in to a duplicate ( a make up)...and we call it by a brand name " comfort"( an after wash solution for kostlee_clothes 😜)

That was about spiritual aspect of.....minimizing the carry-over of accumulated karmic garbage, washing clothes, before we learn to "wash our sins"😜😜🙏🙏🙏

Sin_nicke_ly yours,
PSN ( 5 feb 2024)

Sunday, February 04, 2024

Day business

 Day business 


A youngster told me (very honestly of course…. impersonal things still affords honesty 😜… dishonesty is a compulsive_syndrome when it is about emotional-relationships which are thrust on us by social norms😆)

told me….. “... today had decided to make it a cleaning day”  .



I kept thinking about the present trend of alloting a “day” for everything…


So I wrote….


Exactly.......🤣



Cleaning_day.....



No power on earth today can shake this resolve to have a"day" for everything.....



Eggjam decides the "day" to study..... mugging is not an option.....its a compulsion.....forget/format after a good score.


Wedding day, dad day, mom day, fool's day, cleaning day....



very obviously

a day to attend to a pile of conversation ( technical name is "chat".... ) 



Value_addition ( if at all it matters 😰...    is opposite of the "logic" behind a day being allotted to "clean" the accumulated garbage called chat 🤣



( a rare few are "drawn" to.....go through something that touches them a little  deep 😜)



Whether others "grant me" a concession for my ability to "assess" the conditioned_mind of theirs, or not..... I assess myself "am I still good at it?" Because,  I need to improve my failure percentage from 99.999 😜 ( actually it is 99.98% failure.... 0.02 success is stupendous 🙏... even among "gurus" this 0.01 % success is rare)....



Anyway,  my idea is....

a suggestion to relook at own priorities....

A "day" for everything? 

( flab reduction..... a day per fortnight, or....daily? 

Karma?

Mind's stubbornness? ( actually,  its karma 🤣)

Emotions in relationships?( commercial_relationships... "day" is fine....)..



Thats why perhaps God जी too decided a “Judgement Day” 🤣🙏🙏🙏



daily yours,

psn (4 feb 2024)




Monday, January 29, 2024

PranPratishta

 #PranPrathishta



It is good that,antinational,sickular,pissfuls,liberal liberandoos,commies,dhimmies, etc are mocking at us challenging pranPratishta🙏

At least, to face them we "may" look at 2 things🙏

1. Are we capable of sensing "prana" outside us?(indiyateethGyan 😜)

2. Is that idol really energized now?Pran got infused?(right now, a weak evidence, a hearsay when sculptor said, "not the same, as when I finished sculpting.Face is changed after pranPratishta".He benefits his-experience, me?)



Consecration is an ancient science.

As an indicative example, we can magnetize a piece of iron temporarily.

A flow of current through a coil can create a magnetic field, which can rotate an iron shift, we know as motor.

Natural magnets we might use as an indicative example for swayambhoo idols. Humans have a potential to feel energized idols. 

Once we open up to our latent potentials, facing jihadis is easy, physically & verbally. जय श्रीराम 🙏


Energetically yours,


PSN ( 29 jan, 2024)



  

Thursday, January 25, 2024

Informal EDUCAshun/education

 Informal EDUCAshun/education


The 4 basics of true “education” of ancient Bharat,  ( core syllabus) doesn't have  too many demonstrable examples among living people of present 2 centuries. ( if available,  they would have been “text book examples” 😜



Yet, I noticed a few, who managed to acquire a quality among those 4 ( syllabus) in a very informal way, hailing from most unexpected fields of life .



One example ( for me) was madam Zahra Sehgal…

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zohra_Sehgal


She gave me a text book example in herself.

Emotional stability.

Watching her on a silver screen for few minutes( as a character in hero dominated desi movies) is no evidence to substantiate such deep qualities like “emoShun'al stability”( Emotional)


But carrying an intense visuals of a lady portraying a grandma's role ( she was heroine of B/w era before I was even born😰)... those visuals came handy when  I heard her  converse with a journo.

She said “ tauba…if I need glycerine to beget tears… can I not bring forth original & genuine emotions?”

The next dialogue flattened me 😂

She said “ in fact…..i mentally recall the same incident for two opposite kinds of emotional scenes. 1.to sob incessantly,  uncontrollably & 2. To burst/explode into uncontrollable laughter…… my husband's very-untimely death”( she narrated how & why he died….)”



Same incident for extreme  sorrow & extreme laughter????

Awesome 🙏

( now…..my ability to imprint the movie scenes into my re_callable slots of my memory came handy 😜….. and i “bookmarked” her role as a quotable exampull/example for my use, when I try to “talk” about functional aspect of emotional stability, it's ability 🙏)



Unstably yours,

 PSN ( 25 jan 2024…thai_poosam pournami😜)




Monday, January 15, 2024

God fearing (versus, reverence towards God)

 God fearing (versus, reverence towards God)


For an “idea” about my_view on reverence,  this link  https://selfseekers.blogspot.com/2023/09/reverence.html 



A look at a few advertisements for matrimonial alliance….. we notice a mention : “should be God-fearing” as a pre-requisite in a groom and even  a bride.



I was stupefied at first, and then I got used to it….

All along, I thought “only a Devil-ji” is to be feared. ( I rely heavily upon the historical evidence in historical-stories i read from my kid age ! Devils cause havoc on “good people”....only ….. yep,! They are better than me at ‘identifying good peepals/people's’ . Strange isn't it. Devilish villains are flawless. They never caused any harm to ‘bad people. No chance, of caught in the cross fire.




So  it set me thinking …..even after I stepped onto adult_related maturity. 

Then it dawned….


Moms instill “fear of God” in kids ( kind of…..outsourcing of strict vigil over mischief_prone kids. It works! Kids get scared at a fellow who can watch_over you…..without being himself_watched 🤣… easier to hoodwinked a human,...that mom… God's attributes are quite scary…🥺



This “seeding” in kid age….is like a readymade item, off the shelf for parents seeking a match for their son/daughter…. God_fearing 👍… at least that bride/groom can be blackmailed emotionally (using that residual 10% fear for God). Maybe, a side_benefit is….God fearing bride/grooms won't indulge in mega_crimes 🤣😜



why do they “use” an external tool. ( emoShun/emotion of fear in the other fellow ? TO KNOW ABOUT  that person?)


I wouldn't….🙏

I trust my own capabilities. 

Here, the tool required to measure the other person's “resistance” to situations in life….. is missing or it is a blunt tool… 

Potential to respond to any situation in life,  can be hindered only by a negative emotion called “resistance”. 

When do we feel that “true” reverence fot God ? ( huge topic).

At least, am I capable of testing the “presence” of a potential_to_have that reverence ….for any thing, place, or person( nouns) that is worthy of reverence???? 

Why is measurement of reverence sooooo important?  Because of the huge defect in Indian genes 🙏… we hail from “reverence” culture( quite opposite to freedom_culture, of West). Reverence is an embedded software, which needs invoking for becoming operational/functional, each time with volitional consciousness.  ( recent exampull/example…. Modi washed the feet of a few people who cleaned the public toilets at the make_shift toilets at Kumbhamela, where lakhs visited without a week. Reverence for that profession. ) 


Well, it is upto us to find, acquire and develop that skill to use the testing tools to measure the absence of RESISTANCE in a candidate( whether for matrimony or for a job 🤪). No jabardasti. …

Peepals in marketing इspirituality cannot avoid acquiring this tool ( to test absence of resistance) to filter a potential customer 😀….



Irresistibly yours,

Psn ( 15 jan 2024) 





Tuesday, January 09, 2024

Standards of life

 #StandardsOfLife


ISI is a concept as well,apart from a necessity for assurance of a society,for the society,by the society.



Standards for life? Parameters of basic values?

We lost the "glory" of traditional values when, we started setting our own standards ( "this much is enough, no need to continue traditional rigidities"). Next generation diluted it further. 😜... "Live in" has replaced the sanctity of saptapadi style🙏

( I noticed, spirituality doesn't allow dilution😳. I realigned self😞)


Rigidly myself,

PSN (9 Jan 2024)




Thursday, January 04, 2024

The 'why' of spirituality

 The ‘why’ of spirituality .



Let me confess. I never faced this question. Spirituality didn't give me a choice/chance about it. It got into me, alongside the awareness of the pronouns like “my, me, mine…”( the first person words, a kid learns, after getting tired of using own name instead of a pronoun ”me,i , mine, my” etc… simply put, it is the early stages of self_awareness. Till then, a baby turns back to find out “who has done it”, upon hearing its own fart 🤣



I often had to answer this question, when I decided to meddle with the lives of others, who happened to come to a “center” to get their yoga_practice corrected. They weren't asking for spirituality. They wanted peace of mind+a little health, by doing a few gimmicks called pranayam, meditation & yog_asanas. Why would they ‘bother’ about something that never bothered them? 😜…. The spirit is a mere witness, while the whole orchestra is “conducted” by mind, with a stick that doesn't make a sound by itself, and yet, directs how the 120 instruments make a noise 😜



So, 

I shall try something else, easier to relate with' 🙏

A smartphone, into the hands of a rustic who never saw a basic mobile instrument. He asks “ why should I learn about what_you_call as a smartphone?” ( Meanwhile, how many of us “bothered” to explore all the functionalities of “Windows 11”???... I am shy of migrating from 10 to 11 on my laptop. I open it only once a month for 10 minutes and shut it down when battery shows 95%+ … I didn't feel tempted to look at all the applications pre-loaded by “Dell”)


Somewhere during 1992 or so….

I explored all the “visible” functions of “wordstar” a word processor that was pirated and brought at my workplace by a colleague, who felt that “ some compatible interface” is needed if any floppy comes to us with a word_file… it can be opened and read.

I had been driven by a boss to “try to squeeze in” the contents of 2½ typed pages of a letter into one single page itself. So, I needed to know the “software” a little more than just “type, save, print”. I could reduce the height of lines. I could choose slimmest fonts, and it's smallest readable size. Not happy with that, I used “soft spaces” in between alphabets, words and sentences. I punished dots with the capital alphabet of next sentence to sit snug_fit next to it😜. The “final” printout amazed my boss. He got a better accomodation than he expected, to plant his signature at the “penultimate” space_and_line.

Today's “cloud” technology challenges a software engineer’s brain, to show his ability at Full utilisation of its potential. A movie maker showered fear with artificial intelligence in “Terminator” movie, and it's parts/versions. 


A human frame?

Can we hope to explore the full potential of its software and design ?. 

No two leaves are alike, on this planet. The biometrics of human eyes, fingerprints and face are unique as ID's. What about memory, mind and emotions? 

What if……we know the core source of human frame well enough, and that info can allow us to utilise the frame & it's purpose to its conclusion, so as to release us from the dictates of its ever growing complexities ( karma 🤣😜🙏🙏🙏)?


Most of us are sufficiently contented with knowing the minimal functions of a human frame. Even the “self councelling” of ancient times, is outsourced for a heavy fee to a psychiatrist, who doesn't bother to know about himself.


Ramana Maharshi tried to market this question “ who am I?”( I didn't meet anyone saying “I found its answer. Now, I know why, people who got the answer, don't declare it 😜… )


Embededly yours,

PSN ( 4 Jan 2024)




Monday, January 01, 2024

Temple, as a picnic/tourism spot

 Temple as a picnic/tourism spot


https://www.kooapp.com/koo/subhashdhawan/223ab828-6cbe-4f99-898a-3cffabfbbb7b 

You need not respond to this poll....

I just wanted to show an example of highly controversial word "tourism", when it gets related to a "mandir" 😜🤣

At work place, visiting officers ( audit department of Centra office) ....after winding up hectic work.....

they tend to get a "little" friendly to few staff...

invariably, I am one such fellow 😅

They ask " is it WORTH visiting your-dhanalinga?" ( They see me sitting for meditation during lunch break. 15 minutes MeditaShun & 15 minutes munching raw food 🙂).


I invariably warn them " avoid visiting this place, mistaking it to be yet_another_temple .... Some irreparable, irrevocable thing can happen 😭🙏... I know better, trust me"


They get curious" ???"


I say slowly ( let each word sink deep) " this structure is consecrated in a very unique way. Any being, wandering unawares, incidentally, accidentally within a certain radius will get implanted with seeds of spirituality, irretrievably 😳... It gets embedded for infinity, after any number of lifetimes. Sprouting of that seed is one's choice. Or, a situation which can trap you, into getting that seed to sprout 😢😰....

So, think a hundred times, before going there as a tourist, for fun, picnic etc... unless you don't mind spirituality permeating into you till eternity, please 🙏 avoid it's perimeter even "



Now, they cannot question me any further. They do_think. They decide to take a "risk".... 🤣.



I end up like Don Corleone in "Godfather "( he makes a proposal, which the other can't refuse 😜)



A Christian lady explained scientifically about 5 different types of consecration at 5 important "Ayyappa" temples in south( Kerala, mostly, I guess). 

At one such temple, her menstrual cycle got corrected, due to the consecrated energies 🤣...she confessed on mic at a elite gathering of scientific people 😜.


Ancient temples .....were of irreligious Hinduism ( no name Hinduism). Even a primitive "idea"( forget "knowledge").... idea about a temple should convince, that it's effective radius is around that village ( so a visit.....for picnic or non-sense doesn't matter 🙏..... You touch a 11000 volts high tension wire, whether as a tourist or picnicker, you are asking for trouble 😭... Shiva temple, sensible female avoids a visit for a week, not just her 3 days 😢)



Falling into a trap by toolkit goons of pseudo sickulars, spoils own mental health 🙏

Ayodhya/mathura/gyanvaapi, the 3_murthis are "sarvaVyaapi" and care a damn about your temple or toilet🙏🙏🙏



Funnily yours,


PSN (1 Jan 2024)

Friday, December 29, 2023

Stories for myself

 Yep 👍


This time, I am my reader and audience 😜🙏


It's time to educate myself a little.


Thinking aloud, can turn into “music for ears” when the listener finds it to a confession 😊 ( a welcome variation from people who make tall claims of their achievements and accomplishments, not bothering to even distinguish between the 2)


So, this blog is for purely entertainment purpose. ( Any relevance to any body, is purely coincidental, unintentional and ….bla bla bla…😜)


Two short stories ( for me to learn from)

A fellow approached a zen master “ teach me spirituality”. zen master caught his neck, dipped his head into a water-tank nearby. Held him gasping for breath, and released his grip. That fellow lifted his head out of water, inhaled deep. Zen master asked “ tell me, while your head was inside water, what was your topmost priority?” That fellow “ to breathe 😭🙏”. Zen said “ come to me, when spirituality becomes like that breath, when you were under water”...


Second story:

Buddha was keen to teach a kid age friend, because of the deep emotional bond of friendship. That friend was a busy shop owner, like Adani and Ambani of those days. Every time Buddha passes by his shop, and requests, that friend says “ next time”. This years passed. Friend rushed to Buddha, when he heard that Buddha is about to die. With great difficulty, the devotees allowed that friend to go near Buddha ( nobody is allowed to disturb a monk awaiting death). Friend “ sorry, I missed your request every time, and I know it is now, too late 😭🙏…. Just tell me, how-to get you, after you are gone?”( It seems Buddha opened his eyes for a brief while, and replied. That “reply” later on became a huge lesson for posterity. I too was taught that lesson🙏).


Manu had clearly said in his ( Smriti)...verse 110 of second chapter, and I am struggling to learn that lesson yet 😭🙏… my confession 😔. These two stories are illustrative format of this verse. ( A rough translation of that verse : "without being asked, one must not speak anything to any person not should he speak if any question is put to him without decorum.  in such cases, the intelligent one shall behave like a dumb person")

Until yours,

PSN (29 Dec 2023)

Thursday, December 28, 2023

Compatibility issues

 Compatibility issues



A familiar term in today's minds.

I am deliberately using it to draw attention towards issues in interpersonal relationships, so that, emotions do not remain a jargon, where compatibility is an issue 🤣


Logic can easily deal with compatibility issues in robotic world, not emotional worlds 🙏 ( emotions are unavailable to logic, that's why)



A pair of software will be looked into deeply, when there are compatibility issues. 

Interfaces….that need patch ups…. 

Functionality issues, needing a bit of revamping of the basic codes

Concept related clashes ( affecting designs. Bare concepts mean no harm😜)



We can try relating it to the 3 gross layers of our emotional software 🤣

How we manifest our emotions ( mismatch of harmony, sync…etc)

How we respond to situations, due to strong impact of entire bundle of emotional experience thus_far in life)

The core emotional residues, sticking closest to our innermost_being( our basic life_energy, it's vibrating_pateern, wavelength etc 🙏😔😳).


I am only going to ‘tickle’ our intellect with a mind_boggling example 😂😜

We do_come_across couples, who surprise the people around, by sticking together, despite mutual quarrels on an almost daily basis 🤣…. ( Still rare example is, in cases where one of the pair “kicks the bucket” prematurely, the other one collapses mysteriously 🙏.



I am not going to propound the debugging process of emotional compatibility issues between the close ones of my readers here🙏… ( general prescriptions don't work)



Compatibly yours,

PSN (28 dec 2023)

Wednesday, December 13, 2023

Reason Versus Justification

 Reason vs justification


A good reason for something seems to qualify as a justification for that thing.


When rains are heavy, river floods and flows on to even sideways of its bank. Hutments get swept away. Probably lives too. Annual feature of few rivers. Reason remains asa justification for inaction by people for several generations, until some fellow stands before that mighty river and says “I will stop that river 💪👍”... People around laugh and label him as a mad fellow ( the justification of past generations, is being questioned by him 😜… no ‘need’ to tolerate his argument/challenge. He or his descendants build a dam ( earthen dam, later masonry dam, whatever). Then, the same flow which swallowed lives, will light up the nights of lives generating hydro_power 🙏



Nucleic family is a reason for inadequate parenting of present generation…. Should we use it as a justification for lack of values in kids? 


Interpretation of statutes, case laws, seem to convert reasoning into justification, while the preamble gets grossly ignored in courts. Unsound mind, if it can be proved as a valid reason, using an admissible evidence of doctors certificate from a corrupt doctor, every murder gets a pardon 😜😰 . Money power and cunningness of an unethical lawyer turns a system meant for ‘justice’ into a mockery.



When investigative agencies unearth black money, scam funds, etc from a politicians premises, the culprits shouts “vindictiveness” by the ruling party ( reason is reasonable….. and minds of vote bank nods “yes…. vindictiveness “ forgetting that, this neta never said “ I didn't hold black money, I didn't perpetrate the scam”


The power of reasoning throwing away the bits of justice remaining scantily strewn among isolated politicians, was demonstrated so mightily when a prime minister explained on the floor of the parliament ( documented into perpetuity now😜) the justified-reason of multitudes of mega_scams as “due to coalition compulsions” …. 😂🤣🤣🤣 Awesome example of mega corruption of minds of those who occupied the highest chair of public responsibility as a civil servant 🙏



My personal experience…. Spiritual path is well insulated from any kind of misuse, abuse, manipulation, craftiness, slyness, cunningness, connivance, etc of minds, which seeks to justify a reason or cause, for neglecting our spirit, life, being, soul, atma, rooh, whatever 😜 … a department of justice symbolised by a personified deity shanidev, using the characteristics of a planet called Saturn, when its planetary influence to symbolise its functionality, had served the purpose to guide our minds on right path since 5000+ years 🙏, was a mega contribution by mathematicians of the highest order, of ancient times, who were known as rishis .



Are we interested in cleansing our minds, to some extent? Do we like to avoid self_deception of misusing valid-reasons as justification for our complacency?  

There is a huge risk. Face isolation 😜… get labelled as a fool. Because, the baby_steps starts with accepting responsibility for failures happening very routinely in our mundane lives 😜


Anyway, nature takes its own course( coarse, if we are too complacent about values, basic to life)...



Unreasonably yours,


PSN ( 13 Dec 2023)


Thursday, December 07, 2023

Elbow space/room

  “elbow space/room” is the popular phrase to convey the emotion of utter misery when we face lack of space, at any place/time.

Space constraints……😜


Probably, only person who can afford to maintain that “serene look’ despite severe, acute and chronic space constraints, literally disallowed even a little elbow space……is the one lying six feet below in a coffin 😂😜😜😜😜


Story says, Pushpaka Vimana of Ravana was designed to overcome space shortage, when I heard about this aeroplane that “there's always one vacant seat in it, no matter how many board”( like our gadgets with “expandable memory space” 😜🙂)...



Normal life is what I like to talk about…

How our mind looks at space constraints.


A small story.



A poor man's small hut grew crowded when his children grew up, a few got married, had children etc... His wife started grumbling....


This man had a "guru"...🙂

A village guru, illiterate as well. ( Slightly better than others in common sense 🙏)


Guru was consulted.


One good thing was the poor ones in the village quietly obey this guru ( however bizzare, crazy, funny, or stupid-looking, are... his prescriptions 😂)


Guru said " crowded? Less space? Okay....tie up your 4 legged domesticated animals inside the hut. Come after ten days"


This man felt a bit humiliated, but....as was the practice....obeyed 😜


Wife started shouting and wailing aloud. The droppings and stench of the goat & buffalo made life more miserable. But this time, the man quoted Guru. Can't disobey. 

Ten miserable days.

Very punctually the man stood before that guru/sant/saint.


The guru just looked at his face. It was all written all over the face. No need to ask "how's life?"😜


Guru said, "okay 👍....now take those animals outside and tie it at its usual place their shed outside. You may not need to come to report now.


Man heeded.

Everybody in the house (hut) experienced sudden enhancement of moving space. Cheer spread across their faces. Clean , airy.... breathe_easy....after the 4 legged ones were sent out. They forgot their earlier rant of crowding due to expansion of family members 😂.

( Story over)





Now my experience…..


At amravati



I used to spend quality time



observing afresh each time



That paanWaala sitting in a tiny cubicle for 12 hrs plus, a day.....


Literally no "elbow space/room"...

Surrounded by countless jars and containers to be able to dig out bits of ingredients for each customised pan/betel leaf... If his elbow extends a millimetre extra, he knocks of 2 to 4 jars with loose lids, ( kept unscrewed for high speed blending of its ingredients)



Most fascinating part comes only if I wait patiently, for an hour or plus.



His stiff body needs to come out of that cubicle for a minute or two at times.


He brings his elbows close to his chest so that the width of his chest matches the *_diagonal length_* of the board that separates the lower half of his body from our view🤣

He bends his knees gently, allowing his upper body to slip down vertically, till it goes below the board , and then he bends his chest between his legs to squeeze himself out onto the road. 

I am *_easily reminded_* of a child birth, though I *_never witnessed one_* 🤣


What baffles me is.....

Once he comes out and stands erect, he doesn't 'stretch' himself ( like the bus drivers do, after climbing a ghat section for 3 hours with loaded passengers, hairpin bends etc, when they get down for a cup of tea. They hop down raise their arms high, bend backwards and s-t-r-e-t-c-h...... Aaaah!


Panwala has kept a minimal customers waiting, and can't afford 'wasting time' to stretch. Revenue 😂 he rushes to get relieved, or to do something urgent, some buying from a nearby grocer, and back to go through the *_reversal process_* of re-entry into his orbit 🤣🙏🙏🙏



I think of him, and then .....I never feel any space constraints anywhere.🤣



Decades later,

a bigger shock awaited me 😜🙏🙏


On a 'holy day' at a shiva temple... buses run jam-packed to & fro from town to that temple 10 kms away at the outskirts of the city.

Buses run for 22 hrs that day. Conductors go to&fro the length of that bus, at least 15 to 20 times each trip, to collect fare, give out the correct ticket and balance coins 😞🙏🙏🙏


I often tell my cashier colleagues " try to match him, whenever you feel 'burdened' due to rush of customers.... standing patiently I a queue, clutching bundles of cash, when you sit in a safe grilled cage, with a mini fan, despite A/c...and seldom required to return excess coins/notes tendered with challan/voucher.

They painfully agree, with a bow and namaste 🙏😜😂😂😂



Sympathy, empathy, sync.... whatever,😳🙏


Helps us to come out of our own created_pain….



Spaciously yours,

PSN (7 Dec 2023)





Friday, December 01, 2023

Inheritance

 Inheritance


What is worth inheriting?

If we inherit the proverbial “wheel” (should I be required to “reinvent the wheel”).


How do we inherit it?

1)By retaining the wheel, extending its life as much as possible. For that, using it very sparingly. ( Doesn't look like a “strong” proposal 😕)

2)By replicating it, storing abundant ‘spares’ ( shelf life decides it longivity)

3) By learning to make one 😳 ( no need to reinvent a wheel. Just learn to make one)

4) by learning the “concept” of a wheel ( the roll, the role of a pin, hub, axle, which allows the roll of the wheel. The role of rolling balls, ball bearing which ensures a smooth interface between non_rolling & rolling parts.)

5)by allowing our focus to dwell upon this concept of wheel, and ‘seek’ a mechanism which can rotate/roll at a different speed, direction etc ___paving way for a “differential” 😜 , a tie-rod, etc.

6) destroy the prototype called wheel ( jihadis are good at it. Now, we can reinvent a wheel, a square, a hexagon, or any non-sense 👍).



Inheriting a property is most common thing today.

Retaining the value of that property, a little uncommon. 

More uncommon is…..adding value to that property. 

This was about physical and material aspects.


Inheriting values, knowledge, retaining it, increasing its use, value etc …



Inheriting “presence” …..🤣

Looks like a bloody joke 😔😭🙏

But Bharat has a heritage ( root word ‘heritage’ we inherit heritage 😜…not merely a property 🙏).

In that order, our ancients evolved into a technology of retaining the “energy/spirit, and it's subtle qualities……to function as a guide to future generations “ …

Example: aadi shankara…..said “my samadhi will be functional for 700 years”( actually, it is still retaining it's energy and can be felt by fellows who bothered to sensitize themselves to its requirement 🤣😜)

Temples carry subtle energies, designed to last….( Invoking it needs some expertise, which is getting extinct when priests chant mantras very ritualistically, without any symbolism 🙏)


Ancestral homes ( in Kerala it is ‘tharavad’, or a mutt, etc) are consecrated for progeny to benefit from its energies ( certain techniques in yoga/spirituality/etc helps to invoke and imbibe those energies)


Cloud technology 😜😜😜…. Yes, Bharat had this concept of cloud_computing to tap energies. ( On the eve of janeudhariPappu day….a kind of propitiation similar to annual death_anniversary ….is conducted with positive chants.  Energies of evolved ones among a certain Lineage of gotra, are invoked and their ‘presence’ is sought to guide the new initiate into highest ever chant called Gayatri. Once initiated properly, and if the kid learns to invoke properly, this chant undergoes a dynamic change in its very basic structure and becomes something much higher than its usual nature called a mantra. This changed form has a name , ‘chandass’ but it's notice remains ignored by even eminent head priests. Sad 😭…. Inheriting values is a matter of choice, and cannot be adjudicated by a court of law 😜



I personally, govt trapped into a groove which kept rotating me around inheriting of deepest values available in Bharat , at different places, different forms, different formats, varied sources etc…( numerous sources 😳😢🙏🙏🙏).



I thought, a few might care to know about “what other than physical and material property , can be inherited?”

I don't try to prescribe about reinventing or inventing of any wheel . I am merely trying to apply a little grease to rusted wheels in us 😫. 


( I personally engaged myself in keenly observing, learning, and experimenting with various kinds of stuff, worth inheriting 😜… inadvertently, I tripped on things that I seemed to have learnt in a far off time, and there I had a very strange ‘feeling’ of having inherited my own past 😜😜😜… the ‘thing’ I herited from my past is supposed to need 22 years of rigorous practice under stringent supervision of an evolved spiritual teacher, whereas, I seemed to be able to do it with tangible results in a matter of 8 hours this time, in 1994 😳… something unbelievable and astounding 🙏. I am able to see and witness “live” , a piece of property, being disputed in a legal battle at court, and the litigants oblivious of its inherent and latent value and potential of far higher value, spiritual value that can empower creation of the physical properties at will😜🤣… I could personally experience that subtle presence in that disputed property, since I had proximity by virtue of social customs, to be able to see simultaneously the distinction of ‘fighting for what?’ when, sense of discrimination, depth of perception etc differs from person to person, and confines a person of lesser ability with constricted sense of discrimination.)


Spirituality, very much like insurance…..

Is purely a subject matter of solicitation.



Uninvitedly/unsolicitedly yours,

PSN (1 Dec 2023)